Step Four is about finding out where I’ve been wrong in my:
- Beliefs
- Thinking
- Behavior
Why? I can change these. If these change, my life changes.
Plus: I find out what I’ve done wrong, so I can repair the damage.
There are three inventories. We’re going to do some writing. If you want to use pen and paper, that’s fine. If you are happier typing, that’s fine too. If you’re typing, adjust the instructions accordingly.
All through this process, follow along with your Big Book. The instructions below help clarify how to follow the Big Book instructions effectively.
Key points:
- Let’s get going straight away
- Let’s plug away diligently and daily
- We’re after facts, not judgements
- We’re not finding out who we are
- We’re finding out what we believe, think, and do
- A carpenter is not her tools
- If the tools don’t work, she can find new tools
- That’s what we’re doing
- We’re perfect children of the universe
- We’ve been using terrible tools
- Let’s find them so we can replace them with better ones
We start by listing things that have upset us through our life.
Start Here – https://www.1st164steps.com/resentment-column-1-introduction/