Manipulation: inappropriate means to get someone to act a particular way (in contrast to a polite request, legitimate overt or covert boundaries, and/or positive reinforcement)
(The following may be legitimate or illegitimate depending on context.)
Verbal anger
Making noise (with furniture, household objects, doors, windows, and vehicles)
Encroaching on physical space (including using vehicles)
Criticism
Blaming
Chiding
Inventory-taking
Ordering
Hostility
Argument
Nit-picking
Sophistry
Legalism
Threatening
Punishing
Shaming
Sighing
Face-pulling
Glaring
Ridiculing
Sarcasm
Interrupting
Talking over
Repetition
Long-windedness
Filibustering
Terseness
Incoherence
Rambling
Expressing grudging acceptance
Withholding thanks
Mismatch between tone and words
Running away
Storming out
Weeping
Expressions of upset
Expressions of victimhood
Expressions of good motive
Assertion of the reliance on God
Assertion of the reliance on prayer
Silence
Patchy engagement
Ignoring
Sullenness
Self-pity
Promises
Bribery
Flattery
Charm
Flirting
Seduction
Intermittent reward
Invoking favours
Invoking obligation